Thursday, June 19, 2014

Spring Break in China!


Finally...

Together again, and finally in Ruth's corner of the world!


I had been waiting for this day ever since we thought there might be even a remote possibility that we move anywhere in Asia.  My fabulous friend, Ruth, from waaaaay back in the days of Webster Jr. High in Waukegan, has been living in China for more than 15 years.  It was top of my list to visit her and her family, and we finally managed it!  And reconnecting with her and watching our kids get along so famously was worth every penny, yen, yuan, and RMB.  I'm just sorry it took us so darn long, Ruthie.  

[And by the way, what is the US government doing to China to cause them to charge $200 per tourist visa for American citizens?  That is crazy-making.]

It was tricky to find a good time to make the trek to China - when the kids were out of school and the weather wasn't either too hot and humid or too freezing cold in China.  This haruyasumi (spring break) was our chance.

We left at the crack of dawn, hailed a taxi to Haneda airport (I am still surprised how amazingly easy it is to find a taxi at incredibly odd hours in the middle of our very residential neighborhood), and our adventure began!  We flew through Seoul (which is a very nice airport, by the way - they even had interactive cultural arts and crafts activities and the boys both did a Korean ink-rubbing, though I wondered at the sign that clearly stated "for foreigners only").

Uneventful flight and arrived in Shanghai to a very rainy day.  Decided to take a taxi to Ruth's house, and was immediately reminded that we're not in Japan anymore.  No black-suit, white-glove wearing taxi drivers with pristinely clean GPS-equipped taxi cars.

We gave the taxi driver the address and directions in Chinese that Ruth had sent to us.  He got us in the general neighborhood (though we had no way of knowing that) but he did not really seem too interested in getting us to the right place.  It wasn't until he realized that we weren't getting out of the cab until we were in the right place that he opened the glove compartment, took out his glasses, and decided it might be helpful to actually read the address we had given him.  Ummm... yeah... that's a good idea.  And of course, our language skills were zilch.  Anyway, we made it to her housing complex, but he dropped us off at the completely opposite entrance than taxis are supposed to, such that our directions to Ruth's apartment were also completely opposite.  And, as luck would have it, it started pouring down rain just as we got out of the taxi.  We looked like drenched rats by the time we found Ruth's house and she barely believed we had come by taxi.

Just as I had expected, seeing Ruth was just like old times.  Decades, years, weeks, days - it all seems to fade away in the presence of of a true friend.  We settled into Ruth's place for a little bit, hoped for better weather, and since her family was gone for the day, we ventured out to explore with Ruth as our Fearless Leader!

Shanghai

First stop was Lujiazui, the financial district of Shanghai - supermodern and funky and new skyscrapers seeming to appear by the day.  Nearby is also the river bank area, called the Bund, on the Pudong side of the river.  It was a bit cloudy and misty which made for an interesting ambiance as we walked around before dinner.

The "Oriental Pearl" Radio and TV Tower - and yep, it's really called that!





We walked along the Huangpu river - with old Shanghai seemingly showcased on the other side of the river and modern Shanghai at its finest on our side of the river.

We then headed to Kevin's favorite place, Din Tai Feng, to eat Shangai dumplings (called xiaolongbao).  These are the little dumplings with a thin wrapper and the most delicious steaming soup inside.  We watched them make the dumplings - each one by hand - which only added to our appreciation for the absolute deliciousness.

We arrived home just as Gerie and the kids were getting home - and thus began the weekend of joy that was my kids playing with Ruth's kids.  Though how in heavens I manage NOT to have a picture of all the kids together is beyond me. It is my only regret (though it's a big one) of the entire trip.  Benjamin, Fianna, and Olivia - thank you so much for such a wonderful weekend!

The next day was Sunday, and again Ruth was our spectacular tour guide! [Ruth also helped me remember all that we did for this blog since so much time has passed and my memory has failed me.] 


Today was all about the Old City area of Shanghai.  We took the metro down to the Yuyuan area – drank some sugar cane juice – walked around the area near Yu Garden but didn’t actually go in.  We then walked through across the zig-zag Nine Turn bridge to the super-old and super-traditional Huxinting Tea House. If I remember correctly, Ruth told us that the legend goes that one should cross the nine turns of the bridge so that evil spirits could not follow.  After crossing the bridge, I turned around, but Kevin and the kids were still there - no such luck for me.  Just kidding.

We fed the fish swimming below the bridge, and then ate some surprisingly yummy shengjian (the dumplings with the thick fluffy breadlike wrappers and a little soup inside) and some spring rolls from a random street stall. They even gave us a straw to slurp the juice from the dumplings.  


Then we walked by the Temple of the City Gods and through the streets of the Old City, down the food stall street eating some other snacks. We walked to the Bird & Flower (and Bug) Market. Then over to Xintiandi - the upscale, trendy neighborhood - just perfect for an afternoon snack and a little time to rest our weary feet. 
Ryan takes a little "Opa Gangnam Style" dance break in the market

The Chinese seem to have a thing for pet crickets -
which is amusing as I am listening to the not-so-quiet-chirping of 100 crickets in our living room as I write this.
All for the love of Lizzy (and Ryan).

After a post-snack energy boost, we headed to the Confucious Temple. I quite loved this temple and garden and we were practically the only ones there.  






Ethan taking a book break as the rest of us explore the temple grounds...







By this time, it was time to meet Gerie & kids at a Taiwanese restaurant, complete with Shaved Ice Mountain and Mango ice.   We were pretty pooped by the end of this day, so taxi home! 


The next day was Monday, so Gerie and the kids headed to work and school and we headed out for our last day of exploring Shanghai with Ruth and Olivia.  We went down to the Bund and got a great view of the modern Shanghai skyline on the other side of the river.  It was so pleasant just to walk along the riverwalk, chat with Ruth, and let the kids explore on their own.  





Exploring the Bund - view of the Shanghai skyline
(Ruth took this photo - cool, hunh! All the good photos are courtesy of Ruth)













After leaving the river area, we happened upon a super-duper hole-in-the wall eatery with an old guy making shengjian in the window.  Our crew didn't take much convincing and sure enough, only minutes later, Ruth and I were inside ordering dumplings for everyone.  Plus, we couldn't bare to end our streak of eating dumplings almost every meal (and often between meals as well, but who's keeping track?).  Of course, after sitting on steps of some random establishment (might have been a bank) to have our dumpling snack, we were in search of a place to eat (again).  




We strolled along the fancy pedestrian shopping street of East Nanjing Road, and if I remember correctly, we ate dumplings AGAIN!  Ruth then pointed out an egg tart bakery and I immediately just haaaaad to have some - it was my favorite street food treat on my little rendezvous in Macau with Sandy - so I had to relive the experience.  Delicious!

We headed home to pick the kids up from school, which was quite interesting in and of itself.  Kids played on the playground at the school before we headed home and ate our last meal together - at a local neighborhood beef noodle place.  We also finally tried the "stinky tofu" that we had heard a lot about.  It was ok, but not something I'm gonna wake up in the middle of the night craving.

Beijing-Bound

After making it to our train with approximately 60 seconds to spare (and much to my dismay, no time for a real good-bye to Ruth and Olivia), we climbed aboard and at 302 km/hour, made our way to Beijing.


So, so, so many adventures in Beijing:

  • Wandering through our hutong, the alley neighborhoods of old Beijing
  • Tiananmen Square
  • Seeing Mao's embalmed body
  • The many, many questions from Ethan about communism
  • The Forbidden City (imperial palace)
  • A cool urban park with a magnificent view of the mind-blowing expansiveness of the Forbidden City
  • Temple of Heaven (Tian Tan), built in 1420 as a place to pray for good harvests
  • Chinese acrobatic show (sorry no photos of this)
  • Making dumplings with Angela, the woman from our hutong courtyard guesthouse 

Goofing around at the guesthouse...
Just exploring our neighborhood - a few blocks from our guesthouse


Entrance to the Forbidden City at night
After exiting the rather odd viewing area to see Mao's embalmed body - quiet, eery, just follow the line of people and be quiet - type of experience.  Of course, I did tell the kids the legend that Mao's ear had fallen off during the embalming process and they had to sew it back on, so that gave us something very specific to look for.  That said, we couldn't really tell if his ear looked sewed or not...
Tiananmen Square, looking towards the Forbidden Palace
Entering the Forbidden City, under the watchful eye of Mao and lots of guards


Starting our exploration of the Forbidden Palace - it seemed to go on and on forever - and clearly a symbol of power and wealth for the very few.



Hiking up the hill across from the Forbidden City 

View of Forbidden City from atop a hill / park across the street

Temple of Heaven - this was our favorite temple - and was the site of annual prayers for good harvests









It was also the site of many, many people of all ages playing park games - a Chinese version of hackysack complete with feathers and bells, paddle ball, etc


And lots and lots of card games! We spent quite a bit of the day playing around in this park...



Back at the guesthouse, learning to make dumplings

Our finished product!

Great Wall of CHINA

I loved our time in Beijing, and I especially loved our journey to the Great Wall.  We headed to the Mutianyu section of the wall, a little bit further afield and less touristy with the added benefit of a toboggan slide down the mountain.  We had been warned of how crowded it would be and we were very pleasantly surprised - sure, there were people there but it was far from crowded.

I was all set to navigate random mini-buses and local buses and some bus changes on random road corners to make the trek out of Beijing to the Wall.  Because that's how I travel.  That's how I roll.  Until Kevin's level-headedness entered the planning and we just booked a car to drive us there instead.  Yeah, I gotta admit, that was waaaaaaay easier and allowed us to spend our time and energy and kids' good graces at the Wall itself.

Having done a little Great Wall research, Kevin was armed with some entertaining factoids for the kids.  Did you know...


  • that the length of the Wall is the same distance as from Japan to California?  5,500 miles.  It is also the longest man-made structure on Earth.
  • that it was built over many, many years across several dynasties to protect China's northern boundary from invaders?
  • that it's not one long continuous wall? (and thus the Mongol invaders and Genghis Khan were able to easily go around it until extensions were built much later by the Ming Dynasty, 1368-1644)
  • that is was called "the longest cemetery on earth" because so many people died building it? Some day more than 1 million people died building the Great Wall.
  • that the Chinese invented the wheelbarrow and used it often during the construction of the Great Wall?
  • that there are more than 10,000 watchtowers along the Great Wall?  The section we explored was 24 watchtowers and still took us several hours to hike end to end.
  • that the mortar was made out of rice flour?


We took the cable car / ropeway up, which I must admit was a rather odd feeling to be riding a ski lift up to the Great Wall of China.


And at the top, we were amazed by the sight of this phenomenal structure... on and on and on...



With each watchtower seeming to have a different architectural style...



We trekked and trekked and trekked some more.  Up and down, steps and stones, guard towers and watch towers.




 And we were pleasantly surprised by the sight of cherry blossoms (especially since we were missing the prime cherry blossom season in Japan).





 Ryan was the motivator to keep going.  As we looked faaaar into the distance, Ryan was the one who insisted that we could make it to the end of the Mutianyu section - 24 watchtowers later.



 Getting closer, but not quite there ...




Are we there yet?



WE MADE IT!


And our reward for a job well done? A ride down the toboggan slide, of course!





This was one of those days that I will look back upon and smile and revel in the wonder that is exploring new places and being in the moment with my favorite people on the planet.  I only hope that Ethan and Ryan will do the same.

Chinese Street Food, more street food, and then some more!

Let your eyes feast, my friends!  China is heaven for street-food lovers of all persuasions...


The start of street food street extraordinaire!



I've never seen such a HUGE wheel of bread!


One of our varied breakfasts at the guesthouse

Eels for breakfast, anyone? Fresh and squirmy...

Thanks to a tip from Ruth, we discovered these ceramic jugs of cold, fresh yogurt sold on the street everywhere.


Enjoying our yogurt - we ate at least 1 everyday!

Rice in creative shapes and colors
Same with dumplings...these are crab, I think.


Some freaky fruit drink that gives off vapors???

Snacks of the creepy-crawly variety... starfish, lizards, beetles, scorpions, seahorses,,,

I kid you not, those bugs' legs were running in full force while skewered to a cabbage...


Crab...

And lots and lots of intestines!

Some very, very cool sugar art - how can one eat that? [Of course, most people might say that about a scorpion too.]

A special treat - carmelized fruit - that's healthy, right?

More sugar art - too bad our poor, deprived children could only look from afar...



Very Japan-like - with all the food cuteness.



Do we have these in America?  Because if not, I think it'd be a fabulous carnival / state fair food.
What's not to love about a spiral potato chip on a stick???

Another guesthouse breakfast - LOVED them!

Favorite Random Scenes in China





More laundry...


Here's one of those kid "claw" games on a small little village-like shopping street in Shanghai - the thing is if you look closely, you can see that one can win a stuffed animal OR a pack of cigarettes.

Fresh meat!

Pedestrian bridges

Reminded me of Africa - it's amazing what can be hauled when it needs to be.

Gourds hanging from a storefront in Shanghai

Another street food snack - that big contraption spits out some pretty tasty popcorn!

The popcorn man

No words really, just a chuckle.

Ahhh, the painful truth

Well-manicured neighborhood walkway - apparently close to lots of housing built for the Beijing Olympics - much of which now sits empty.

Bike parking in Beijing

One of my favorite signs in all of China - in Beijing, close to our Hutong neighborhood

More fresh meat... and a bicycle, of course.




Monday, May 12, 2014

Our Family Holiday Letter: and yes, we realize it's May!


Wow - I reaaallllly thought we had posted this on the blog already.  Admittedly, we didn't send it out until March, but it's May already and this is bordering on the ridiculous.  But most have already seen our family "holiday" letter anyway, so this post is just to make sure it ends up in our family blog scrapbook / photo album.

Oh well, Happy Spring and Summer and all that jazz!

And sorry that the images are small, but if you click on each image, it should appear larger on your screen.









      











Saturday, March 1, 2014

Introducing our newest family member - LIZZY, the spotted leopard gecko!

Lizzy - her first night in her new home - Jan 4, 2014!

 Soooo, Ryan, our little animal-lover has been talking about wanting a pet for quite a while... and for the past few months, he kept talking about geckos (or "echo" as he pronounced it, which amused me to no end).

So, as Christmas and birthdays approached, I had ZERO good ideas for a gift for Ryan.  As desperation set in, as to what we could give our sweet little boy for Christmas and his birthday, I decided to take his desire for a gecko/echo more seriously.  I started where any self-respecting person starts these days, Google, and I quickly learned that geckos are considered an ideal pet for young children.  Whaaaaat??? Who knew?  Well, apparently Ryan knew, but I was clueless.  So, after several weeks of intense internet research, Kevin and I decided that getting a gecko would be just grand.

As with everything else here, that one decision left us with a few more hurdles to climb.  Just exactly where in the heck do you buy such an animal in Tokyo?  Here began a very interesting process.  My internet search (in Japanese) proved not very fruitful, so I just started asking random people.  Some moms looked at me like I was certifiably insane (which I'm used to these days) and others seemed politely amused.  Still others seemed downright excited by the idea.  Within hours of me asking a  friend from soccer, she had e-mailed me a list of several pet shops in Tokyo (turns out she had had a pet salamander for 10 years so she understood the situation more than others).

Then came the fun part.  Calling these pet shops to ask IN JAPANESE if they had spotted leopard geckos, high-yellow type (the least expensive species), if they expected to have them in January, how old they were, the price, etc.  Based on these calls, I narrowed it down to about three different pet shops, scattered all around Tokyo, and over a span of several weeks in late November / early December, I visited all three.

Completely unrelated, but I have the oddest assortment of Japanese vocabulary than any non-fluent foreigner I know.  Dragonfly larva in Japanese - check.  Spotted leopard gecko in Japanese - check.  In case you're wondering, Lizzy is a hyoumon tokage modoki (ひょうもんとかげもどき).  At about the same time as I'm calling all the pet shops in Tokyo, Kevin tells me that someone from work overheard him on the phone making dinner reservations in Japanese and was VERY impressed.  What the Hades?  Kevin gets kudos for saying "4 people at 8 o'clock" in Japanese and I'm having to ask questions about care of a spotted leopard gecko species.  Seriously?  Where is justice in this world?


Back to the Lizzy story.  I also asked a friend in my Japanese class and it turns out a guy in her lab has 10 geckos and random lizards and he was happy to recommend a huge reptile shop in Tokyo (my friend is an animal behavior researcher at Tokyo University, mostly dogs and horses though, not lizards).  Unfortunately, this shop is waaaaay on the other side of Tokyo but it's added to the top of the list.  So, I visited about 3 different places that had these geckos and I was smitten.  They let me hold them and I became completely and utterly convinced that Ryan would love one (or maybe I was just convinced that I would love one)!

One last hurdle.  Turns out that the life span for this kind of gecko can be up to TWENTY years, so here I am on the phone with the US Fish and Wildlife Service (thankfully this was in English) to find out if and how one might import this kind of animal from Japan to the US.  Assuming we end up back in the US within this pet's lifespan (ie 20 years), I had to know that we could bring it back with us.  I was not about to make Ryan leave his pet behind this time.  I spoke to a very kind Fish and Wildlife agent and she explained that we can import it from Japan to the US, that we just have to make an appointment with them at our port of entry to inspect her (free during regular business hours and an overtime charge if we land after normal business hours).  No quarantine or anything, so that was good.  One potentially tricky thing might be finding an airline or flight that will transport her, but that's a bridge we will have to cross later...



Lizzy's cozy little cage...

With that last piece of the puzzle in place, we made the plan to give Ryan the gecko accessories for Christmas, and the actual gecko for his birthday (after we got back from our trip to Thailand).  We also planned on taking Ryan to the pet shop on his birthday to see the geckos, but our thought at the time was that we wouldn't actually get the gecko until a month later after returning from our trip to LA for Dan's wedding. Ummm.... didn't quite work out that way.



On Ryan's birthday, we headed to the reptile shop of choice.  It was about an hour away by train... and they had a lot of geckos!  We all went there with the understanding that we would not be getting a gecko on that day.  Ryan actually seemed fine with that - he was acting way, way more mature than me.   Ryan had immediately selected the gecko that he liked and I pointed out that it might not be here when we come back, so we might end up buying a different one.  I might have over-emphasized that point out of my own self-interest.  For me, it had been m-o-n-t-h-s of waiting and anticipation for Ryan to get this pet, and maybe, just maybe, I sort-of-kind-of-encouraged us to go ahead and get the gecko.   Maybe...

So, we brought her home!  We learned that she had been bred in the US and that she was a female (?).  On the walk and train ride home, the name Lizzy was suggested and it stuck!


We left the reptile shop with a few key pieces of information - she needed to eat 3-5 live crickets per day and the temperature of her cage needed to be between 28-32 degrees Celsius (82-90 degrees Fahrenheit).  We already had her cage, the undercage heating mat, the cage thermometer, her dry shelter, and her wet shelter.  But we also came home with 50 live crickets that day.

First step was to try to get her cage warm enough in our freezing cold house.  Nothing we were doing seemed to be working; the thermometer was not reading more than 18 degrees.  We even put an electric blanket around her cage, but to no avail.  I went to bed that night fearing that we would wake up to an unhappy or unhealthy and very cold gecko.  The next morning, I called the reptile shop and explained that the heater was not keeping her cage warm enough.  Through this conversation, we learned that we had the thermometer on the wrong setting - why it is supposed to be set on the "in water" setting and not the "air" setting is something I still do not understand, but once we changed the thermometer setting, the temperature was much, much closer to the correct range.  Whew!  That was a close one...

A few fun tidbits of Lizzy's life (and most spotted leopard geckos):

  • She was 3 months old when we brought her home, but Ryan has decided that her birthday will be the day she first came to live with us - which just happens to be his birthday, January 4. 
  • They told us that she might not eat for a week while she was getting used to her new environment.  Lucky for us, she ate on Day 2.  
  • She sheds her skin every 2-3 weeks - this is why she needs a "wet shelter," a small box in her cage that is high in humidity and aids in shedding her skin.  Just before she sheds, she turns sort of a milky white color and within a day or 2 later, she is back to her normal color.  Geckos eat their skin so as not to leave any traces behind to alert possible predators.
  • She is quite a good cricket hunter!  The reptile shop guys told us that we should remove the crickets' legs to make it easier for her to catch them.  We did that for the first few days, but quickly learned that she is perfectly capable of catching the crickets on her own, so we stopped doing that.
  • She swallows the crickets whole, and she needs the surface heat to help her digest the whole crickets.  And the crickets she eats are not at all small - they are about the size of her head.  She also stores fat reserves in her tail - and clearly she is not underfed as her tail is HUGE, as in about the same width as her body.
  • She often licks her lips with her long tongue after she eats a gecko - it's rather amusing to watch!
  • Unlike most other geckos, spotted leopard geckos have moveable eyelids.  They also sometimes clean their eyelids with their tongue - also very interesting to watch.
  • Geckos can lose their tails and regenerate new ones - it's a defense mechanism, but so far, Lizzy's tail is doing just fine.
  • Leopard geckos in the wild originate from Afghanistan, Pakistan, and northwestern India.
  • She always poops in the exact same place in her cage EVERYTIME - this makes cleaning up quite easy.  For some reason, she has chosen her spot to be inside her rock shelter.  As Kevin said, "apparently she is used to indoor plumbing."
  • She likes to come out of her cage and she seems quite happy to climb up your sleeve, sit on your shoulder, and climb back down.  She sometimes stands on her hind legs and tries to climb up and out of her cage - Ryan thinks this means she wants to be held.
  • Lizzy was 5 inches long (head to tail) when we brought her home.  We just measured her a few days ago (not quite 2 months later) and she was 7 inches long.  They are typically 8-10 inches when full-grown.

Ryan takes great care of Lizzy, feeding her, cleaning her cage, and often building her playgrounds in various cardboard boxes.  

She is a hit and a fun new member of our family!

And just for fun, here's Lizzy starring in her first movie!  Enjoy... (and just for a little background, this is a clip from a DVD we made for for 2 1/2 year old cousin Stephen and he loves dinosaurs)